Design The Life You Really Want
and create it one decision at a time...
This is not coaching - it's life design
Generating Lives & Livelihoods That Get Better Every Year
In an era of great change and global uncertainty, sovereignty is a superpower that defines the quality of our lives. Without it, we remain at the mercy of increasingly harsh external influences. With it, we have the power and direction to create our best lives. We hold our destiny in our own hands.
This is not coaching – it’s life design. Whether working with individuals, families, groups, intentional communities or businesses, I help you to filter out external distractions, refine your habits, break repetitive patterns, and connect with the essence of who you are. We design your life towards the future that you desire – not the life you’ve been taught to live.
Since sovereignty can only be experienced when we know our highest values and begin to make decisions from that knowing, Values-Based Decision-Making is the tool at the heart of my work. It offers a ruthless clarity of vision for individuals who are struggling to define a cohesive vision for their lives, and helps groups to get on the same page, pulling in the same direction.
More than ever, we need the skills to work effectively in collaborative groups, whether it’s on a shared project, in a business, or an intentional community. Having applied regenerative design processes, allow me to break down the complexity of your challenges and provide guidance towards your full potential.
Ready to stop reacting to life, and actively design it from the inside out?
Hey folks, I’m Tristan Holme
I’ve worked with people who lacked clarity in how to move their life forward, who had difficulty saying ‘no’, and who were never taught how to make decisions that were for their benefit, rather than somebody else’s.
I’ve worked with groups and communities who held an intention to create something beautiful together, but needed to make sure that they were on the same page about what that was, and how they were going to get there. Sometimes they were just starting out and wanted to define their values as a collective, and sometimes they were a little way down the road and were finding that they were all saying the same words, but that they didn’t mean the same thing.
I’ve worked with people who were facing challenging and emotional conversations, where holding those discussions without external support was overwhelming and counterproductive.
I’ve also been a member of groups like the ones outlined above, and have experienced the cost of these situations myself. The lost time, the wasted energy, the financial leakage, and the emotional drain of being disconnected from oneself, or from others, can be very taxing.
From working with people, and from the experiences of my own life, I know how powerful it can be to know your values and use them to guide decisions every day. I’ve also seen the magic that’s possible when everyone in a cooperative group is there for the same reason, and has designed its decision-making system in a way that inspires each member.
Most of us were never taught how to make decisions towards what we want, and have subconsciously allowed others to design our lives for us. It’s little wonder that we can feel lost or stuck in our quest for the life that our hearts know is possible. But with the right tools and correct application, anyone can turn their vision for the future into a reality.
I’m here to guide people back to themselves, so that they can align their actions with how they want to be in the world.
Ways to Work with Me
Guidance In Making A Big Decision
Are you feeling unsure about a big, important decision in your life, in your family, or for your group? A single session can bring clarity and a sense of ease.
Craft Your Values-Aligned Life
Are you lacking direction in your life? Or does the future you desire always feel out of reach? Learn how you can design and decide your way towards the life you actually want.
Collective Decision Making
Does your business, cooperative group, or community find it challenging to make effective decisions together? Design your way to collective alignment.
Regenerative Business Design
This is not business coaching to tell you what you should be doing. It’s facilitating you to design your business to be everything that you want it to be.
Intentional Community Design
Struggling to make headway? Mired in conflict? Wondering how you can move into the next phase of your community project? Let’s cut through the complexity together.
Facilitation
& Conflict
Needing effective, neutral facilitation? Someone to hold the floor for a tricky conversation? Or are members of your team at odds, and internal solutions haven’t worked?
Are We A Good Fit?
Every client that comes to me has a different context, with its own unique complexities. Understanding the context is critical to designing a process that can meet the objectives in an effective and truly regenerative manner.
Successful outcomes also tend to be heavily reliant on having clarity about the issues we are seeking to address, and whether I have the tools to address them.
To determine this further, I offer a 30-minute Good Fit Call where we can delve into your situation, understand whether I am well-positioned to improve it, and make a decision on whether we want to work together.
If this feels like a natural next step, please reach out to arrange a conversation. The call is free of charge and there’s no pressure on either of us to go any further.